Friday, 10 June 2022

For I know the plans I have for you

 

For I know the plans I have for you

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Jeremiah Chapter 29 Verse 11

Hi everyone !

Mum told me that the phone had rung not too long after 8 o’clock one weekday evening in early May. 

Tunbridge Wells 26048

Hello, Isabel. It’s Wally; Wally Packman

Good evening, Mr Packman (When the Chairman rings… it always pays to be polite !!)

Is Fred around ?

Dad & Wally had first worked together a quarter of a century before.

Both still working for Mears Construction, they were good friends.

Wally told Dad that his granddaughter Ruth Eisenberg (who - subject to A Level results – was going to Cambridge that Autumn to read Law) had asked her Grandad if he knew anyone who could host her for a day in Cambridge before the Summer Term ended.

Wally told Ruth there was only one name in the frame: Young Ricci !

When I made my weekly call to Mum & Dad the following Sunday morning, it was quickly agreed that Ruth and I would meet up on Saturday 10th June 1972.

Exactly 50 years ago today !

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When you are the Chairman’s beloved and only granddaughter, you do not travel from Blackheath to Cambridge by train.

Oh No; the Chairman’s Chauffeur brings you in the Bentley !!

The College Porter was hugely impressed: The Rich Relatives, eh, Ric !! 

There was light rain as Ruth & I walked down Storey’s Way, turned into Madingley Road and then along Grange Road.

After a couple of hours looking round the Law Faculty, we headed through the centre of town taking in two or three colleges and headed across Parker’s Piece to Fenners cricket ground.

Ruth had inherited a love of cricket from her grandfather.

Dare I even mention that she was a Kent Fan ??!!

Dad, Ruth, Grandad Wally and I had watched a couple of Kent games at The Nevill, Tunbridge Wells.

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By one of those amazing co-incidences that you so regularly find in Lord Ric blogs…

 

Sussex were the visitors at Fenners !



50 years ago there was no Sussex Twitter account, so it wasn’t entirely straightforward to know just who was playing.

We couldn’t find a scorecard to buy.

So it was very much a case of physical recognition.

When we arrived at the ground around Noon, Cambridge University had just started batting.

Looking at the Cambridge XI there were a couple of well-known players:

Majid Khan played 63 Tests for Pakistan (including 3 as Captain); and

Phil Edmonds who played 51 Test for England. 

He is one of my Favourite Players of All Time.


But several other players - though much less well-known - would come to benefit from the words of Jeremiah Chapter 29 Verse 11:


For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, 
plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

They are in their early 70’s now.

Then in their early 20’s, what were the Lord’s plans for these young players ?

Opening the batting was Phillip Hodson who would marry Sally Ann, Sussex and England Captain Tony Greig’s sister.

And become President of MCC.

 

Batting No. 6, New Zealander Keith Steele would go on to have a successful legal career in Australia, becoming Senior Partner of Freehills (now magic circle law firm Herbert Smith Freehills).


And the No.9 John Spencer would become the Sussex Cricket Society's Player of the Year in 1975.
A master at Brighton college, he would coach future Test Players Matt Prior, Holly Colvin and Sarah Taylor.

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For anyone who was a Sussex Fan in the late 1960s and early 1970s, there were plenty of Legends in the field.

No.3 Roger Prideaux - himself a Cambridge Blue - would become the first Chairman of the fledgling Professional Cricketers' Association.

Roger Prideaux and his wife Ruth Westbrooke played cricket for England; the first couple to both play Test cricket.

England Women won the 1993 World Cup with Ruth as coach.

The Prideauxs

No.4 and wicketkeeper - and needing absolutely no introduction to Lord Ric blog readers - was Young Jim Parks.

Jim didn’t usually play matches against the Universities. But he had made his First Class debut against Cambridge at Horsham over 20 seasons before, back in 1949.

Did he perhaps sense that his Sussex career was close to ending and there was time for one last game against the opponents where it had all begun ?

That Saturday now long, long ago, there was a stumping and a catch from Young Jim.

 Class is Permanent !!

Mike Griffith - a Cambridge Blue at cricket, hockey & rackets - was in his final season as Sussex Captain.

He would go on to become President of MCC, the second in the game.

Peter Graves and Mike (brother of Tony) Buss were long term players for Sussex.

But looking at the Sussex XI there were a few players who were rather less familiar:

John Denman’s 5 for 45 in this match was his career best performer.

The Sussex Nos. 8 & 11 were roommates.

18 year old John 'Trout' Barclay - in his first season as a professional cricketer  - would become Sussex Captain from 1981-86.

His autobiography is one of my Favourite Books:

Trout would manage England on two overseas tours.

For over 30 years he ran the Arundel Castle Cricket Foundation for young cricketers and underprivileged children.

He is the current Sussex President.

And he would go on to become President of MCC, the third in the game.

  

And what of Paul Dunkels ?

He played just three First Class matches: one for Warwickshire, one for the Minor Counties and finally one for Sussex.

All three of his wickets were taken in the game against Cambridge.

For those looking for a Truly Trivial Fact:

At six feet ten inches tall, he (surely must be) the tallest ever to play for Sussex.

(Note: Greigy was six feet six inches)

And what of Life after Cricket ?

Paul Renton Dunkels was called to the bar in 1972 and appointed as a Queen"s Counsel in 1993.



The Senior Statesman of the Western Circuit

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Ruth & I enjoyed watching what in truth was a gentle day’s cricket.

Throughout the day we chatted about Life at Cambridge … …

My first year had been really enjoyable.

Friends made for Life.


The Fitz Economists of '71  - 50 years on 
Ricci, Harry, Roger & Nigel

I said that being well-prepared for Supervisions was the key:

Never rely on your Supervision Partner either being well-prepared themselves and/or sufficiently bright to be able to get by on intellect alone.

As my Tutor Tony ‘Doc’ Edwards had told me:


Ruth and I both knew that she was ferociously bright.

She had absolutely nothing to worry about !!

 

There was time – as there always is time – for me to tell a couple of Young Jim stories…

You know the ones !!

Ruth told me that she knew that I’d still be telling the same stories about Jim in 50 years’ time.

And she was right !!!

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And as for Jeremiah Chapter 29 Verse 11 and Ruth ?

Ruth’s A Level results were excellent; never in doubt.

We became very good friends over the next couple of academic years.

And we remained so when we both starting working in The City.

Ruth became a Partner at magic circle law firm Clifford Chance.

And along the way she met & married Ted.


She told me that she knew that Ted was The One when ... they first shook hands …


Which only goes to show the Absolute Confidence that a Cambridge Education gives you !!!

But - looking back, how had we allowed it to happen ? - in our early 30s we had drifted apart.

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And You, dear Reader …

What is your Tale of Jeremiah ?

I’d love to know.

Do get out your diary & have a look at the fixtures.

I really hope that you’ll come along and watch cricket with me.

After all ….

 

Why read a Lord Ric Cricket Blog, when you can star in your own. 

 

See you soon!!

Lord Ric of Beckley Furnace

 

PS

In early June 2001 I was working for WS Atkins in Epsom, based in the Mansion at Woodcote Grove.

The Mansion

My PA, Jennie Assem, told me that they were ready for me in the Board Room.

A Deal was being finalised for the bank debt for a Private Finance Initiative highway.

Chase Manhattan Bank was the debt provider.

As I headed downstairs, Jennie handed me the Briefing Notes.

I slipped into the Board Room & sat quietly near the door.

It was clear that the Deal was “oven ready”, save only for a final issue with the Warranties & Indemnities.

For Atkins, David Clements put forward a proposal.

TBH; it was a complete nonsense !!

But -  much to my surprise - the Chase Manhattan lead negotiator seemed to be about to accept the proposal. 

Then he said: I should ask what Ruth thinks … …

Almost 20 years after I had last heard it, as that so familiar voice started to speak, I quickly turned to the Runners & Riders - Profiles appendix in the Briefing Notes.

Peter Jefferson had done his usual excellent job in preparing the Profiles of the other side’s participants:


Ruth Eisenberg is a Partner at Clifford Chance.

 

Ruth is charming and erudite.


She is ferociously bright.

 

Ruth prides herself on always being well-prepared for meetings.

 

Note:

Whatever happens, do not under any circumstances let Ric become involved in direct confrontation with Ruth.

It will end very badly for us !!


Just for Ric:

Ruth is a lifelong supporter of Kent.

Though no one knows why; her Favourite Cricketer played in the '50s & '60s for Sussex & England: 

Young Jim Parks.


I heard Ruth say:


Thank you for asking me to give my view.

 

Looking around at the expertise here this afternoon …

I am able to confirm that I am not the smartest person in the room; so I am in the right room !

 

Almost 30 years ago, just as I was about to go to Cambridge…

I was advised by a very good friend to always go to meetings well-prepared; and indeed I have !

 

Come on, Young Ricci.

You know that the Atkins proposal is a complete nonsense.

 

Why don’t you & I spend 5 minutes agreeing a reasonable approach ?

 

Then we can all sign the Deal and open the Champagne …

 

 

And you can tell us all a story about Jim Parks. …

 

You do still tell stories about Young Jim, don’t you !!!



*****


In Memory

of


James Michael Parks


Sussex & England


21 October 1931   -   31 May 2022



RIP Young Jim



With Love, Ricci & Ruth xxx














Monday, 7 March 2022

Proudly floats the Sussex banner


Proudly floats the Sussex banner

Surely brighter days must dawn

Surrey v Sussex at Kennington Oval 1896

Albert Craig the Rhymester

  (Sussex won by 43 runs !!)


Hi everyone!

With Season 2022 starting in barely a month’s time, thoughts turn inevitably to watching from the Deckchairs up at the Cromwell Road end.

Of course, the iconic deckchairs are an integral part of watching at Hove Actually.

But those of you who – like me - are lucky enough to regularly watch the Mighty Sussex will know that there are other key aspects to a Day Out at the Cricket.

A chance to walk round the ground at lunchtime, to watch softball cricket on the outfield.

Remembering when you yourself first played, 60 Seasons & more ago. 

And down at the Sea End as you “turn for home” up the hill, it’s always good to say hello to Jon Filby at the Bookstall, glancing at biographies of Legends from long ago.

Before the bell rings for the afternoon session to begin, there is always time  to call in to the award winning the Sussex Cricket Museum.

A few days ago, the latest booklet from the Museum dropped though the letter box.

 


The photo on the front cover is of Harry Phillips’ kit.

   Harry is bottom left in the photo.

Harry kept wicket Sussex between 1868 and 1891.

What may I tell you about Harry?

216 matches, with 2,998 runs at an average of 10, with 339 catches and 184 catches.

Just the one century: 111 v Australia at Hove in 1884.

Harry was born and lived his whole life in Hastings.

Born in Hastings, eh.

Like those other Sussex Legends: Alan ‘Oaky’ Oakman, Mike Yardy & Harry Finch.


[Editor: when you next watch with Lord Ric, do ask him where he was born  …]

Harry’s obituary records that “Phillips was always the cheeriest of cricketers. No day was long enough to damp his good spirits”.

A good epitaph for all who play for and follow Sussex.

Written by Nicholas Sharp, who is one of the initial Trustees and remains one of the head honchoes at the Museum, the booklet describes how the Museum was established by way of a charitable Trust granted in 2009, with the grand opening of the present Museum in July 2011.  

It was well-deserved news that in September 2021 the Museum was announced as the first winner of Howard Milton Award for Cricket Scholarship.

The booklet is published in loving memory of Brenda Sharp who died on 7 June 2020.

Mrs Sharp should be very proud of her husband’s work for the Museum and in writing the booklet.

One of the Museum’s initiatives has been its publications; the Booklets.

Looking at the list of publications, the names of the Sussex Legends in the titles are redolent of Days in the Sun:

Robin & Jim

Ted

Rupert

Greigy

Don

Murray

This particular booklet has some tremendous memories of players and scorecards from matches long ago.

From 1839, Sussex's first season, is Kent v Sussex at Town Malling.

Cricket has been played there for almost 200 years.

In 1836 a new Kent County Cricket Club was inaugurated, with the Town Malling ground as its headquarters.

In Charles Dickens’ “Pickwick Papers” it is likely that the cricket match between ‘All Muggleton and Dingley Dell’ was inspired by Town Malling matches.

In 1890 the last first class cricket match to be played on this ground was held between Kent and Sussex.

 


 

Glancing at the scorecard, I can hardly believe what I am seeing …

“Kent won by three wickets”

In Season 2022 Kent are only scheduled to play Sussex at Hove the once:

Sunday 29th May in the T20 Vitality Blast.

I am not expecting a repeat of the 1839 result !!!

So, dear reader, with Season 2022 not too far off …do get out your diary & have a look at the Fixtures.

I really hope that you’ll come along and watch cricket with me.

 

After all ….

 

Why read a Lord Ric Cricket Blog, when you can star in your own. 

 

See you soon!!

Lord Ric of Beckley Furnace

 

PS

I started this blog with the story of Harry Phillips.

I mentioned Harry’s runs, catches & stumpings.

But as Wicketkeepers are sometimes asked to do, Harry was an occasional Bowler.

14 wickets at an average of 20.

 

Up in the Deckchairs we love to reminisce about Sussex Legends.

Especially about a very special Sussex Legend who also kept wicket.

We don’t need to overly dwell on this Legend's impressive career statistics:

36,673 runs, with 1,087 catches and 94 stumpings. 

Not to mention 51 wickets.

 

Including one in Test matches.

Indeed, he was the only England Wicketkeeper in the 20th Century to take a Test Wicket:


At Kanpur in February 1964: Dilip Sardesi caught Edrich bowled ??? for 87

 

But who was this Sussex Legend?

Come & watch some cricket with me down at Hove Actually … & I’ll tell you !!

 

There's a Deckchair with your name on it !!



Monday, 24 January 2022

Waste No Time On Assholes

 Those were the days, my friend

We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we choose
We'd fight and never lose

For we were young and sure to have our way

Mary Hopkin

Hi everyone!

This a story of a long ago forgotten day of County cricket; from four decades ago.

#SpoilerAlert

The game petered out into a draw.

Not the usual: final ball, one wicket left, 3 runs needed to win. 

But just before you decide not to read the Tale ... ...

I should tell you that it was:

The Old Rivals: Kent v Sussex

The Nevill, Tunbridge Wells

Watching with Dad 

I hadn’t planned to go; for the game was played on a Wednesday, Thursday & Friday.

Working days & I was busy (though I’ve absolutely no idea at what !!).

But on the evening of Wednesday 18th June 1980 Dad – who had been at the game that day – asked me:


“If - at the end of Thursday: Day 2 of 3 - there looks to be plenty of play left for the 3rd (and final) day, why don’t you come along on the Friday?”

Luckily, my boss was a cricket fan (Leicestershire) & he readily agreed that I could have a day’s holiday on the Friday; only finally deciding once Day 2 had finished on the Thursday evening.

Mum made the picnic.

The Pork Pies were in; never in doubt !

And the Tomatoes: out of politeness !!

So it was that - on a gloriously sunny day - at shortly after 10.30 on the Friday morning Dad & I left Farmcombe Road on the short walk to the Upper Cumberland walk entrance to the Nevill.

It was the same walk we had taken together over 20 Seasons before on Saturday 7th June 1958.

To watch my first ever game of County cricket. 

Did I ever tell you that was the day Young Jim scored 127 … … I thought I hadn't !!!

We were joined by a friend of Dad's, Bill Sands, who had driven up from Rye about an hour away on the South Coast.

More about Bill later.

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Many of you reading this Blog will have watched cricket at The Nevill many (perhaps … many, many) times.

It is a truly wonderful ground …

The Nevill: From the Railway End

… with so many memories.

For those of us who grew up in the Tunbridge Wells area - but may not have lived there for many years – well, I always agree with what Clive James wrote about Sydney, the city of his youth, in the closing words of Unreliable Memoirs:


“Pulsing like a beacon through the days and nights, the birthplace of the fortunate sends out its invisible waves of recollection.


It always has and it always will, until even the last of us come home.”


The Lads - Forever Young

Will Kent ever play cricket again at the Nevill …

Season 2023: we can but hope !!

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That Friday now long, long ago the Old Rivals were battling it out.

A casual glance at the scorecard shows there are plenty of familiar names.

For Kent, there is captain ( and father of Mark) Alan Ealham & future captain (and son of Colin) Chris Cowdrey.

And overseas legends too: Asif Iqbal & John Shepherd.

For Sussex, there is wicketkeeper and captain Arnold Long & future captain Paul Parker (who after his cricket career would teach at Tonbridge School, barely 5 miles away).

And overseas legends too: Imran Khan & Garth Le Roux. 


But there are also much less well-remembered names.

The Kent wicketkeeper was Stuart Waterman, who played but 25 games for Kent spread across 5 Seasons between 1980 & 1985.

The Sussex opener Tim Booth-Jones debuted against Kent; and by co-incidence his First Class career of 26 games would end against Kent the following Season.

The scorecard reports that Sussex scored just 142 in their First Innings.

Paul Phillipson top scored with only 38.

Kevin Jarvis took 4 for 21.

Kent replied with 223, a lead of 81.

Chris Cowdrey top scored with 83.

There were 2 wickets each for Imran Khan, Garth Le Roux & Geoff Arnold.

Dad told me that  - before Sussex batted again  - he thought Kent would go on to win.

But at cricket you just never can tell …

In their Second Innings Sussex scored a massive 305 for 8 declared.

Paul Parker 117 and Imran Khan 75.

4 more wickets for Kevin Jarvis.

On Day 3 I saw much of that innings & all of Kent’s Second Innings: 75 for 2.

The game ended with Kent still needing another 150 runs to win.

As I noted in the #SpoilerAlert: "the game petered out into a draw.”

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I think we’d all agree that watching cricket is about so much more than what actually happened in the game …

When I think – as I so often do – about that Friday, I remember chatting with Bill & Dad.

They were - in the modern parlance – Besties.

They had known each other for some 50 years.

They had played cricket together for Rye before WWII.


Rye Cricket Ground: The Salts

Bill was a Maths Graduate from Cambridge.

The only graduate in the club.

When Dad was asked by the Rye Chairman to become Captain, he asked for 24 hours to consider the offer.

What Dad really wanted was to check that Bill was OK with playing under his captaincy.

“Bill, you’re our only graduate …”

Bill replied:

“Fred, I was asked to be Captain.

But I knew that you were a much better choice.

And I told the Chairman to ask you !!”

Looking back across the years, Dad rarely gave advice – though it was very often all too clear what he really thought !

Be gentle & slow to judge others

It is only when the Crocodiles are snapping that you know what someone is really like

Train On: Whom the Gods wish to destroy, they first call promising

And finally…

Waste No Time On Assholes !

Nor did Dad take advice either.

Save from his cousin Marg - see the blog in July 2018:  It’s all the wasted chances

http://lord-ric.blogspot.com/2018/07/its-all-wasted-chances.html

And from Bill.

“Always worth finding out what Bill’s thinking."

That day watching the cricket there was the usual ‘cut & thrust’ between them. An outsider might have mistaken it for arguing. But Bill & Dad knew-well never to end the day on a disagreement. I was listening out for those familiar words of reconciliation; and not too long before Close of Play I heard them:

“Now, Frederic. When will I be seeing you next?”

A date was put in the diary: for Dad to meet Bill down in Rye, watch some cricket on the Salts (where Rye have played since the 1840s) & have a pint in their beloved The George in the High Street.

And – of course – Bill would be back the next Season to watch cricket at the Nevill !!!

Season 2022 is not too far off …

I really hope that you’ll come along and watch cricket with me.

After all ….

Why read a Lord Ric Cricket Blog, when you can star in your own. 

See you soon!!

Lord Ric of Beckley Furnace

PS

If you’ve read this far, you may be wondering what it was that prompted me to write the Blog this particular day …

Of course, it’s always good to write about the Old Rivals playing at The Nevill; and about watching with Dad.

But there is another reason …

As Bill got into his car for the journey back home to Rye, indeed we did all agree:

“See you at The Nevill next Season !!

But ...

The Clock of Life is wound but once,
And no man has the power
To tell just when the hands will stop
At late or early
hour.

The following year in April 1981 Dad had a stroke. It left him without sight. And no longer able to recognise “cant & tosh” at a 100 paces.

That Season – the first since the 1930s – there would be no visit to his beloved Hove.

During the Autumn Dad's health worsened. And a few days before Christmas he was taken into Pembury hospital.

On Sunday 24th January 1982 – exactly 40 years ago today – Dad died.

As I finish writing, I can look at his photo on my desk.

 

Barely a handful, perhaps, of you reading this Blog will have known Dad.

You will recognise only too well that Dad’s influence on me is as strong today as it was 40 years ago.

I am so sorry that haven't always * followed his advice about: Waste No Time On Assholes ! 

* A (depressingly long !!) list is available upon request 😏

I have felt Dad walking by my side every day … when it was sunny & at those times when I thought the rain would never stop.

Richard: the game isn’t over until the last ball has been bowled.

Give It A Go !!

Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end

And then they did ... ...

The present only is our own,
So live, love, toil with a will,
Place no faith in "Tomorrow,"
For the Clock may then be still.

RIP Dad

Love, Richard XXX